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[vicarz]

This week I've had several girls mention their desire for a big, beefy man (in one case a direct quote, other just with minor phrases like "big strong arms"). The only girls I know that don't seem to want a big beefcake...want other women. Even the women-wanting ones seem to want beefcake men, with the woman standards being more flexible. Does this mean every time I see a woman with a small guy, short or skinny or both, that they have settled?

I have to start paying attention to marketing - not getting any younger, ya know. I've lifted weights for over ten years, and while I am often referred to as 'fit' or 'in shape' I realize I'll never be beefy or big (often meaning tall). Unless I pull a gattaca, I'm stuck at my current height.

So, the logical pursuit is to become more woman-like.

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[tiana67.livejournal.com]

I do not know a man smaller than I am....so every man I know has big strong arms, in relation to mine!

The tall-lanky-super toned bodies I thought were "beefcake" in my late teens and early twenties are the bodies I now want to FEED, I want to put meat on their poor bones.

I considered my X (the Tae Kwon Do instructor), (who you met) to be "beefy" & you are he are the about the same height and size.

Big and beefy to one woman might be 5 foot 7 170 pounds. To another woman, it might be 6 foot 350 pounds. And I am both those women, I LOVE them all! Short, tall, stalky, beefy, meaty can all = YUMMY.

Just because YOU don't think you fit the mold, doesn't mean you don't.....please go find a real problem to whine about (kidding!). You are just WAY to critical of your self dude!

[vicar.livejournal.com]

Ha! You've fallen into my trap! I've demonstrated the tremendous strength and stamina required to whine about nothing - a demonstration that proves I am in fact beefy! Who else but BEEF would have the ability to waste so much energy on nothing! Ha!

A bite in the right place and anyone is huge and powerful, in my world.

[tiana67.livejournal.com]

hehe, you are such a goof-ass!