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[vicarz]

This week I've had several girls mention their desire for a big, beefy man (in one case a direct quote, other just with minor phrases like "big strong arms"). The only girls I know that don't seem to want a big beefcake...want other women. Even the women-wanting ones seem to want beefcake men, with the woman standards being more flexible. Does this mean every time I see a woman with a small guy, short or skinny or both, that they have settled?

I have to start paying attention to marketing - not getting any younger, ya know. I've lifted weights for over ten years, and while I am often referred to as 'fit' or 'in shape' I realize I'll never be beefy or big (often meaning tall). Unless I pull a gattaca, I'm stuck at my current height.

So, the logical pursuit is to become more woman-like.

Comments

[spunkmunky.livejournal.com]

I have always been most attracted to lean, lanky men. Beefcakes tend to be a big turn off. However, beefcake primates are an exception. Oh, the things I could do to a beefy Silverback gorilla...

[vicar.livejournal.com]

That would be another vote for 'tall.' Lean+lanky = tall. Next!

[spunkmunky.livejournal.com]

Whatever, fool. I like little, lean and lanky. Someone like Urkel.