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[vicarz]

There is a new girl in the office next door who looks hot - which is very odd, as this is a government facility. My boss noticed her, and pointed out she had a "passion mark" on her neck. That seems weird for an adult to me. It struck me that I couldn't remember the last time I had a hickey. How about you?
When was the last time you had a hickey? How did you get it, who was it from, did you cover it up and how, and do you actively avoid marks today or is your passion expressed in a way that doesn't leave those particular marks?

My answer: honestly I can't remember the last time I had a hickey. I learned how to chomp without leaving marks in high school, and also in high school kind of got used to the neck chomp so it's not as passion-provoking as it once was. Someone may correct my memory, but I suspect I haven't had an actual hickey in at least 5 years - maybe 10.

I just love it when I press my tongue into you and you explode in my mouth.
José to a truffle

I took my icon-plushie with me last night to chronos, which was cute until I realized carrying the little fella with me all night was a pain. I danced with him in hand more than once - I'm sore that I don't think Putz caught one such incident in pictures. It was noted that I was boxing-dancing again - so I did at least one song with my hands in my pockets. Please tell me who taught cosmo how to count to 4 in german so I can kick them in the teeth. I was as weird as I worried I might be though, so I ran away before midnight and hid in the dark playing Lords II. I wish I could figure out why I like playing this and starcraft, alone, doing scenarios I know I can win (really flat-out cheating in L2) over and over.

I made the horrible mistake of reading this week's savage love while eating toast. Breakfast interrupted. Bathroom even scarier.

Comments

[grymnir.livejournal.com]

Bah. Most of us who have sex more frequently than once a moon know how to chomp without leaving marks. 'Course, that doesn't mean there aren't adults with a fetish. I know women, and I emphasize the term women (and professional in a public view job) who not just like but demand a "souvenir," though they want it someplace that can be discrete if necessary.

Also...no amount of skill, technique, or knowledge can overcome the "oops...I was that drunk..sorry."

[grymnir.livejournal.com]

oh - and re: the games -- it is called comfort gaming. You do this the same way that I play civilizations x, or someone else might level their class of choice in WoW; interaction with others only if you want it (in your case I don't expect you on battlenet right now), a set of clear goals or tactics to employ....so you can use it to clear some thoughts BUT exert control and accomplish something in a realm that you can always turn off when disappointed.

[pictsy.livejournal.com]

Please tell me who taught cosmo how to count to 4 in german so I can kick them in the teeth.

omg lol

Karl gave me hickeys all the time, so I guess my last one must have been a few months ago.

[justaputz.livejournal.com]

Sorry I didn't get a picture, I should have at least taken 1. I only spoke to you once when I came in so I wasn't up to speed yet. So many missed photos....

[greekphilosophy.livejournal.com]

I've never had a hickey. In college, my boyfriend always wanted to give me one. At one point, I considered relenting in my protestations and letting him suck on my inner thigh for a while, but ultimately held firm in my conviction that having a hickey - visible or not - would somehow ruin me.

I was sexless in high school, so while everyone else was getting covered in hickeys, I was simply sitting back and being judgmental and/or jealous.

[ex-dasboot.livejournal.com]

The off-beat, fake german, countdown I can deal with.

The screaming at the dj/other dancers to "pump it up you fuckers", or whatever, I can deal with.

The lack of underwear and the kilt and the purposeful spinning around/falling down just to show his junk I cannot deal with.

[joanarkham.livejournal.com]

I don't remember the last time I had a hickey. I think I had to tell my mom I "burned my neck with the curing iron" so that was a loooong time ago.

I bruise super easy though (due to the low blood pressure???) and I feel the need to hide the bruises at work. I'm not a battered woman, honest!

[turbogrrl.livejournal.com]

I last had a hickey a few weeks ago. For some reason the boytoy likes chewing on me. And honestly, i'd be lying if i said it didn't feel good. I just get annoyed that I bruise easily.

[http://users.livejournal.com/_blackjack_/]

I gave a hickey or two over the summer. May have received one, I don't recall. I was admonished at least once not to leave marks...

[http://users.livejournal.com/_blackjack_/]

Please tell me who taught cosmo how to count to 4 in german so I can kick them in the teeth.

Would it not be more effective to cut out the middle-man and kick Cosmo in the teeth? Or at least more rewarding?

[darkgypsy13.livejournal.com]

Dude i hate hickeys. It makes you feel owned. The last time i got a hickey was when my boyfriend 7 yrs ago decided to be funny and give one right on the tip of the nose...well..after punching him numerous of times i had to go to school with a big red/purplish dot on my nose. That is when i told myself ohhhh never again will i ever endure one of those.

[rivetangel.livejournal.com]

Could be a birthmark. I had a boss at my old job who had a birthmark that looked just like a hickey.

[telie13.livejournal.com]

Hickey, like 12th grade?

Also, OH. MY. God. Thanks for the savage love linkage jose.

[novaya-zemlya.livejournal.com]

The whole ownership think only counts if you put them where they can be seen. I've had several lady friends who liked marks on the bum or inner thigh. Just a memory of a pleasant evening. Heh. Dirty work, but someone has to do it.

[faeriemage.livejournal.com]

Back in the college days, people used to be able to identify my mark-making handywork, and would call me out on it. I didn't do it on purpose and it took practice to fix.

[cweaselle.livejournal.com]

I don't really know what a hicky is & you would have to tell me if I've ever had one before because you'd probably know better than me. Half of what you wrote today didn't make sense to me (Soje) Talk to you this weekend at some point when I'm not either at the Thrift Store or trying to describe an African Daisy. :)