Jun. 21st, 2014

vicarz: (One eye'd cat)
So again I meant to write a lot, but instead am going to shortcut. I don't feel overwhelmed but I do feel stupidly busy and in need of downtime I am not getting (or recognizing).

Pictures with pretty good labels: http://vicar.livejournal.com/pics/catalog/4019
I had fun writing the captions above, though they're not terribly good or interesting pictures for most I'm sure.

Ok, my life, in eljay - mostly house post.
Work, busy, but reasonable and I just had a trip the week of July 4 cancel due to a lying Complainant who pretends not to get mail by using a PO Box. I think I may have documented proof, twice, that he lied about moving. Curiously proving a Complainant is a habitual liar almost never has value in an EEOC proceeding. More about that in person if you're interested.

JULY 4 I MAY THROW A PARTY. Not really, but with Kabi's fizzball palace moving shop this year, and my trip cancelled that week, I posted in fb that I am polling for interest for a party / staging grounds at my place for July 4 fireworks again. We've done this in the past - parking sucks, and we don't go through security and up to the actual ashes-falling-on-you area, but it's a good compromise to hang back and watch the display from Iwo Jima's area.

Gym, I'm getting stronger in every area with means fuckyouMikefuckyousomuch was right about volume training. Natrually fuckyouMikefuckyousomuch is getting stronger faster than I am, but we're close enough that we're mutually motivating. Having posted a picture of my skinny teenaged self swinging nunchuckos this week in fb, it's amusing that having scrapped caring about masculinity that I am far more masculine than ever before. Beliefs and results are not the same thing in politics or masculinity it seems. Big Bad News: Chiro says that giant butt pain problem should be gone and is likely a tear - recommended consulting with an orthopedic surgeon. I may need grafts on my gums - maybe I'll take some months of my life off and go on a surgery marathon yay! NOT HAPPY. Stabbing me with knives so I can be healthy. I spent years trying to avoid it.

Ok HOUSE HOUSE HOUSE
(edited to note - I forgot a major event: I visited the house and Scott came by with his bro. We had just walked in, were standing in the kitchen when we heard an odd sound and then hissing/spray, followed quickly by water falling in water. I bolted downstairs and turned off the main water valve, to find by an insane coincidence a pipe had just completely burst while we were standing there. It had been capped off, but the cap was fine - the pipe had long-since eroded from the inside out, and as it jutted out holding it's own weight, we just happened to be in the right place when it broke off. Texted Jordan who presumably stopped by after we left. If I hadn't been there...but again again again so happy I went with a full gut job. )

Today I dropped off Janna at work and hit my house where I was going to see if I could make better headway in removing tiles from he main floor than his professionals. Sadly, I left the pile of tools at home (on reflection, there isn't much chance of me making headway in there).
- visited upstairs, Jordan says moving the frames to make the doghouse windows fully operational is no big deal even though it looks hard to me - good. I climbed up the ladder (which is easy to move) and opened the windows and screens - they are double paned after all.
- occurs to me if I'm going to make chalk pictures or statements on the walls - it's kinda now or never. Like sex, I'm finding a disjoint about what I think is a really good idea and what I'm likely to do / put effort in to. Yes, yes, that's the comparison I made.
- Floor is in place for the upstairs bathroom, poor workers are now using an outhouse balanced on my front lawn. I'm thinking more seriously about the impact I'm having on my neighbors in terms of aesthetics and noise; though Jorge's place isn't exactly a sparkling gem of a home.
- Noticed cloth-wrapped wires in the piles of old-shit-piled-up; more more more confirmation that the full gut was a good idea. I'm not sure this was the right house or the right price for the work, but the full gut? Absolutely the right decision. I know I keep reassuring myself on this issue.
- framing is starting up around the laundry, linen, closet, and Master bath. We've decided the back bedroom will be the 2nd best with any size compromise eating the middle bedroom. Middle br will be office, nursery, 3rd wheel or whatever.
- dig dug - the basement is mostly dug out now. I didn't get off my ass in time, but when it came to actually looking at taking vacation from work to dig in the dirt, I sort of balked (plus work was busy and I typically work until done before taking leave rather than planning vacations). Also, talking to the contractor made me less excited as he talked about the day laborers he'd have do work as simple as digging. Basically if I want to do any digging at all, I'm going to have to check my work schedule and take leave Monday - without prior announcement. I am writing this from my work computer which I booted to DL bb pics and check whether this is feasible or not. It was fun to stand on the giant pile of dirt in my back yard, and I played trampoline on the wheelbarrow ramp for probably too long. If my neighbors were looking...
vicarz: (One eye'd cat)
I went to a gay wedding last night, forgot to mention, between a man and a woman. They are Janna's friends, really nice, also grad-librarian-sci educated, kinda cute, live in a cute antique-ish basement we call the hobbit hole, and I like them more after the wedding.

Lazy writing like notes rather than taking the time to compose, again, see a pattern...

Held Fri evening in a winery easily driveable from DC except for the rush-hour traffic factor. Announced in advance as a picnic dress-as-you-like wedding - fucking awesome. I hate hate hate weddings, the dressing, the investment of energy and money, and this just really seemed so friend-friendly that it may be my new model for weddings.

In the invites everyone had a choice of table or picnic; on arrival you had a labeled picnic basket and blanket or a table (only 1 table, how cute). Foods were a free wine tasting, wine, beer, snack foods and sandwhiches on a buffet table, and a table with liquor and mixers I think remained untouched. They had a tent ready but the weather was divine. Music played, a cute mix of old pop and modern alt.

It was so best-things-about-gay. They're librarians so the gay to straight ratio was maybe 50-50 but only because people older than me or under 10 I sort of assume are straight. Ink and fabric fashion was way gay. The ceremony was officiated by a relative, female, who was some unitarian type minister or something (not even wicca, or overtly so as goofy as that can be). They explained very clearly they were completing the ceremony that had been started earlier that day in the county courthouse go fucking you that was nice. Understand before gay marriage was as available as it is in this area, and when I thought that was in my cards, I was thinking we should have a protest union to note though gender-mixed we would forsake the wedding trappings due to the population also barred from such things (perhaps not a great sacrifice from me who doesn't like that stuff anyway, I admit).

The ceremony was adorable - they read each other...a statement, she noting she meant to memorize it and teary, he stating up front he had no intentions of ever trying to memorize it.

Oh books - they were the theme everywhere. Flowers were made from book pages, the labels on things were all recycled card catalog cards, the wedding cake was made with imprinted book pages on the icing. PS the cake was good and I ate too much of it.

They forsought (forsaked? said fuckit with?) a lot of traditions. They did not smack each other's face with cake; save the top of the cake, have a preacher, hide from each other, dress in clothes they never wore before or will again (ok maybe her dress but it wasn't over the top), use a lot of formality, or inconvenience their friends. One thing that made me sad was the unspoken apparent absence of any of his relatives. I've heard mutterings about his family's (India I assume) disapproval of his career choice and possibly wife...stunning to me as she's a brilliant, beautiful, educated, well balanced, and absolutely devoted partner.

Hopefully we all wind up with the best family possible even if we're not born into it.

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