Accidental Troll

I like that you have a deeper understanding of the threat level many women feel walking down a dark alley, or living in a really bad neighborhood. You understand "scared". If that makes you take classes, or like guns, or attempt to learn how to de-escalate, or lift weights, it only adds to your appeal.

Think about it, you are demonstrating consideration for threats others never feel/acknowledge/get exposed to as "great big guys".