I'm not sure slackers don't go to the gym - slacker is subjective, and is never (or almost never) a full descriptor. I've never known a slacker-stoner who wouldn't work his ass off for a great supply of weed. Haven't you met people who suck as people, suck as friends, suck on bills, and suck at work - are dedicated as hell in the gym? Some people can't keep jobs but are super-hawt in the nightclub scene. I used to do that too - had an easy job, lay around the house ALL DAY Sat so when I hit the club that night I had prepped my look for hours (takes hours of preparation to get that wasted look).
I understand why you might see and say the physically attracted part - but that's not what I meant. Attractive, funny when I was thinking of it I was thinking more of forbidden fruit - physical aspects, but situation was huge too. Personality, brain, shared interests...when someone was attracted to me I never really knew why (or cared). I can't reliably predict what I find attractive, nor does it matter. I guess I was distinguishing from the fluffy stuff of any type that *poofs* into the air when challenged vs. long-term dynamic relationships.
But if I explain that this would hardly be fb/tweet
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Date: 2010-03-27 07:11 pm (UTC)I understand why you might see and say the physically attracted part - but that's not what I meant. Attractive, funny when I was thinking of it I was thinking more of forbidden fruit - physical aspects, but situation was huge too. Personality, brain, shared interests...when someone was attracted to me I never really knew why (or cared). I can't reliably predict what I find attractive, nor does it matter. I guess I was distinguishing from the fluffy stuff of any type that *poofs* into the air when challenged vs. long-term dynamic relationships.
But if I explain that this would hardly be fb/tweet