I asked my husband if he'd still love me if I looked like Pierce Brosnan's wife, who appears to have put on some major poundage due to some kind of illness. He said that he would. I'm sure I'd still love him, but I have to admit that I would be a bit upset that he "let himself go". I honestly think that I look better than before having children, I'm not sure what he thinks. As it stands, Logan is a good motivator to get us to continue to work hard and be in shape. Just as I can't swear around him anymore, and I have to watch what goes in my mouth (monkey see, monkey do), I want him to pick up on good health habits.

lol honestly, I never understood the special status associated with "the mother of my children".