lol maybe you're right. I was always scared to death to approach this guy at work that I had a huge crush on when I was an intern because he was crazy muscular and I was well....not. lol

Well, I don't have the answers about kids. I was never in really really terrific shape before I had my son (except back in college). Also, there is a certain amount of fat that will not budge on me, which I attribute to breastfeeding (oh god please let it be breastfeeding). Now....oddly enough, I'm in the best shape I've ever been, mostly because I view gym time as my "reward" for the day. Plus, I need the exercise to stay awake after being up all the time. I couldn't do it without a supportive partner, and I'm not sure that I will be able to do it if we had 2 children. As it stands, it seems like an hour a day of working out isn't even enough to reach my goals.

I do find it funny that they were referring to a guy as being in great shape after children.