Yeah I'm not sure the analogy works everywhere. Is "staying faithful" a positive goal? I tend to think that it's better to cut off the "need" in the first place, rather than fight it. I don't quite get it...I used to want, but over time I've found I have no urge to cheat. I think cheating is just some gaping hole of need that people are unable to fill.
Perhaps achieving real goals fills in the hole that makes you long to fill it with fucking. Who knows. Perhaps analogies have limits.
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Date: 2008-02-05 06:42 pm (UTC)Perhaps achieving real goals fills in the hole that makes you long to fill it with fucking. Who knows. Perhaps analogies have limits.