Agree that working towards being 'better than I am' is the way to go. One race at a time. Thank you for the link/recommendation.
Side thought, using applied negative goals might make not cheating on a partner dependent on just how tempting that particular cake? Applied positive goals might mean that being able to posit a certain future together makes cheating not worth the risk.
Then again, maybe I'm just imagining the taste of chocolate genoise cake.
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Date: 2008-02-05 06:40 pm (UTC)Side thought, using applied negative goals might make not cheating on a partner dependent on just how tempting that particular cake? Applied positive goals might mean that being able to posit a certain future together makes cheating not worth the risk.
Then again, maybe I'm just imagining the taste of chocolate genoise cake.