Neither! This was just a picture begging for a caption. Most of my friends know this friend :) (checked with her before making the joke)
And no, I'm not going to sow my oats in a secretive far away way to fake dignity. I'll degrade myself first - but I'd be honest and public about it. Hiding shame doesn't make it less shameful.
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Ideally be honest there too.
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(checked with her before making the joke)
And no, I'm not going to sow my oats in a secretive far away way to fake dignity. I'll degrade myself first - but I'd be honest and public about it. Hiding shame doesn't make it less shameful.