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vicarz ([personal profile] vicarz) wrote2008-02-04 10:16 am

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Is it time for a rebound fling yet? No? Why not?
I. Hate. Dating.

[identity profile] blindtillnow.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 03:23 pm (UTC)(link)
hrmmmm....

i gotta say though - ms. cobwellac looks pretty rock-n-roll hawt there.

and you look like a constipated gay man.

:p

-S

Lawyers are full of shit?

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 03:38 pm (UTC)(link)
...the other half of my program is holding it in...

Re: Lawyers are full of shit?

[identity profile] blindtillnow.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)
.... and thank you for the looooooovely mental picture.

hiking this sat. after game night?

-S

Re: Lawyers are full of shit?

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I think so - what kind of time? Email?

[identity profile] blindtillnow.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)
:D

no problem. i am especially enamored of the "hussy" top.

*chuckle*

-S

[identity profile] bentrazor.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 04:00 pm (UTC)(link)
That photo works on so many levels.

[identity profile] djpsyche.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 04:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Hahahahahaha what a great pic :)

[identity profile] greekphilosophy.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 04:30 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG, I could be your rebound fling, and we could sit there and cock our eyebrows at each other while we look unimpressed. We'd be legendary.

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 04:33 pm (UTC)(link)
...and you give good snark. I could work with this!

[identity profile] judgefudge.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 06:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd hit it!

And maybe the trollop on the right too.

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 06:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't EVEN tell them apart...

[identity profile] judgefudge.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 06:52 pm (UTC)(link)
The one on the left feels unspeakable goffick angst because he has the blood of baby squirrels on his hands.

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 12:10 am (UTC)(link)

[identity profile] kelowna.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 06:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Lawyerly love.
Grow your hair back.
Don't date! Get drunk and fuck - much more satisfying!
You both are wearing black shirts with red writing.
She reminds me of me from back a while ago.
She has a ladybug purse. Rock.
Don't date! Mate!

I think as we get older we know instantaneously what it is we want and don't want so dating seems like a chore. Then again you find a purpose in going to the gym every day and working on nuance - apply that to a girl?

I want to blurt - but I won't.

--k

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 07:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Does this sound like you?
From http://stronglifts.com/what-do-you-want-to-achieve-in-2008/

I set goals for everything. Strength training of course, but also other aspects of my life. Here’s a quote from the Law of Success by Napoleon Hill: "The man who actually knows just what he wants in life has already gone a long way toward attaining it."

Why Goals? Many people have no goals in life. They’re like zombies. Living day to day without progressing in any area of their life. Meet them 5 years later and they’re still coping with the same problems.

I meet them in night clubs getting high on drugs, wandering around aimlessly. Searching in the wilderness of life for answers. Telling me that I changed. And that they feel useless, bored & lost.


(and so on - then he goes onto a lecture about how weightlifting is god)
Edited 2008-02-04 19:08 (UTC)

[identity profile] panthergirl.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm always setting goals, and often achieving them. Great post, great pic, thanks for the article.

[identity profile] cobwellac.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I love the ladybug, too!

[identity profile] cweaselle.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 06:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I think you know I'm not a good person to ask that. While I know it wasn't meant for me really I thought I'd let you know.

[identity profile] pennan.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 07:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Right there with you on that.

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah but at least you get stories out of it!

[identity profile] dcjester.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
Hrm.

I'd say, go with what you feel comfortable with. I mean, if you want it, go for it. Do what makes you the happiest, even if for the moment. Just dont let it ruin friendships :)

Sides, she's cute (well, as much as I can see with the large glass in front of her face). I wouldnt even question ;)

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 11:02 am (UTC)(link)
(she's just a friend, but the picture was SCREAMING for a caption like that)

i totally understand

[identity profile] alumiere.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
which is why i've decided to skip the whole dating thing completely and move right to sleeping with my friends

i already know/trust them, they know who i am and are willing to accept that or they wouldn't say yes, and it's a lot of fun

Re: i totally understand

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 11:04 am (UTC)(link)
You know, I've done that for many years and I think it's time to end it. For now, I'm trying not to just throw my body around and whore out for cheap thrills - just in case that doing so loses me someone worth actually going out with. I've had enough silly fun - I think I want some substance.

But I totally understand doing it, and am no stranger to that.

[identity profile] lightbringer23.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Be honest about your flinging or if you must, fling far from your home ground.
Ideally be honest there too.

[identity profile] vicar.livejournal.com 2008-02-05 04:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Neither! This was just a picture begging for a caption. Most of my friends know this friend :)
(checked with her before making the joke)

And no, I'm not going to sow my oats in a secretive far away way to fake dignity. I'll degrade myself first - but I'd be honest and public about it. Hiding shame doesn't make it less shameful.