Not at all a bad a approach, though most anyone who knows me already has teflon for skin. Plus, when you ask the question - it's a giveaway that you already don't approve of their situation somehow. Now they're mad that you both don't agree with their victim's plight AND that you're condescending.
Trust me - I know so many ways to lose this game! There's no winning!
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Date: 2007-12-19 03:55 pm (UTC)Trust me - I know so many ways to lose this game! There's no winning!