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There is a new girl in the office next door who looks hot - which is very odd, as this is a government facility. My boss noticed her, and pointed out she had a "passion mark" on her neck. That seems weird for an adult to me. It struck me that I couldn't remember the last time I had a hickey. How about you?
When was the last time you had a hickey? How did you get it, who was it from, did you cover it up and how, and do you actively avoid marks today or is your passion expressed in a way that doesn't leave those particular marks?

My answer: honestly I can't remember the last time I had a hickey. I learned how to chomp without leaving marks in high school, and also in high school kind of got used to the neck chomp so it's not as passion-provoking as it once was. Someone may correct my memory, but I suspect I haven't had an actual hickey in at least 5 years - maybe 10.

I just love it when I press my tongue into you and you explode in my mouth.
José to a truffle

I took my icon-plushie with me last night to chronos, which was cute until I realized carrying the little fella with me all night was a pain. I danced with him in hand more than once - I'm sore that I don't think Putz caught one such incident in pictures. It was noted that I was boxing-dancing again - so I did at least one song with my hands in my pockets. Please tell me who taught cosmo how to count to 4 in german so I can kick them in the teeth. I was as weird as I worried I might be though, so I ran away before midnight and hid in the dark playing Lords II. I wish I could figure out why I like playing this and starcraft, alone, doing scenarios I know I can win (really flat-out cheating in L2) over and over.

I made the horrible mistake of reading this week's savage love while eating toast. Breakfast interrupted. Bathroom even scarier.

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Interesting...I never saw it as a mark of ownership. I saw it (them) as marks confirming desirability, or that indicated someone who enjoyed sex. Of course...I also overread them and assumed that meant a self-awareness (because of the public projection of image) and therefore someone who knew the difference between lust and love.

Hmmm...this is friday...now it all makes sense.

Oh no - I'm on the opposite page. I would not even consider hitting on anyone with a bite mark, and would assume very comfortably that they were quite taken. I also agree they are possessory in nature and used as territorial postings by teens.

Difference between lust and love? Perhaps I'm an old prude, but I don't want a piece of what everyone else already has/had. Hickeys kinda make you look used - cute if you're taken, gross if you're just a vagabond.

"I never saw it as a mark of ownership."

Well, it depends on the situation...