My favorite "symptom" that a guy dating girls might be gay is if he is an inconsiderate ass who sleeps with lots of women. Not caring about women and overcompensating to show everyone what a man you are just sca-reems closet. It would be funnier if so many people didn't get hurt.
Sensual does rock. I have a strong bias though - have had wonderful relationships with bi girls (not the porn kind, real ones ;P). Why not go for the best of both worlds?
There is also the complication of what behavior is reinforced, so what is natural again? I think natural is that lovely state of just not caring, of recognizing the roots of much behavior, enjoying the origin and laughing about it, playing with the roles, exaggerating them...of course this means gay jokes will always be funny. Sexual tension is always funny, and it's quite common to make skin-slappy jokes about who is zoomin who. As gay relationships by the rosiest approximations are a minority of the total pool, they'll always be a bit unexpected and therefore subject to more tension, hence more giggle appeal. Huh...I may need to take this and make it another post to work this tired subject into the ground...
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Re: Non-sequitur.
Date: 2005-08-08 09:52 am (UTC)Sensual does rock. I have a strong bias though - have had wonderful relationships with bi girls (not the porn kind, real ones ;P). Why not go for the best of both worlds?
There is also the complication of what behavior is reinforced, so what is natural again? I think natural is that lovely state of just not caring, of recognizing the roots of much behavior, enjoying the origin and laughing about it, playing with the roles, exaggerating them...of course this means gay jokes will always be funny. Sexual tension is always funny, and it's quite common to make skin-slappy jokes about who is zoomin who. As gay relationships by the rosiest approximations are a minority of the total pool, they'll always be a bit unexpected and therefore subject to more tension, hence more giggle appeal. Huh...I may need to take this and make it another post to work this tired subject into the ground...