Jan. 3rd, 2011

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Resolutions:

10. Do not go on diets
9. Do not eat 10 cookies after every meal, including breakfast, because I'm not on a diet
8. Either play video games for hours, or clean the house, but do not play video games for hours and then complain about the state of the house
7. Treat each complainant (at work) with respect until they demonstrate they don't deserve it - preferably in person. In fact, extend this beyond work.
6.Listen to all stories you are told as though they are true, but do not believe any of them until verified. Key word - listen, in this include trying to watch for nonverbals if not to determine truth, to pick up on patterns for future lies and truths.
5. Keep trying to make the effort to be social, preferably beyond like-clicks. Go outside anywhere. Start by writing emails to all those people you didn't send holiday cards who sent you holiday cards.
4. I will not confuse regular social interaction with friendship or the absence as an absence of the same.
3. Work out even though I'm on the road for travel, even if that workout is just a treadmill run or jog on the street
2. Spend more money on physical things that last
1. Stop talking to mayonnaise
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When I pass - do me one favor. It's not much of a favor. Just...don't tell the cameras anything about "my smile." I'd rather you just admit you're not surprised, I wasn't worth much, no loss, anything - anything but "I remember his smile." "His smile lit up the room." "Wow, really? I can't believe he's gone. Isn't that something. Wow, really?" "He had this way, you know? Lots of ... of positive energy."

Telling the cameras you remember his or her smile best is akin to a roadside memorial. More dignified to die with no witnesses than to be remembered with no substance. Hate would be by far preferred.
But then you don't get many requests granted...

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