people & situations change...i don't go to the club at all anymore, really. i don't see why that's so bad. it makes room for doing new things, or just different things. & makes the times that you do go more fun.

also, there is ALWAYS going to be someone better than you at something. so just accept it, do the best you can, & move on. you're the one who's better than someone else at something, too. life is short.