And realize that all answers you hear aren't always what you want to hear. If you want to hear what YOU want to hear, talk to yourself. If you want to hear something different, disagreeable, talk to other people and respect that you'll get that. Alternate perspectives are a GOOD thing.

How about just finding humour in everything rather than anger?

EVERYTHING will be all over at some point and you can't take it with you (even kicking and screaming...)

--k