1. You feel like a loser when you sit at home alone cause you think of other people that sit at home alone as losers. I see nothing wrong with sitting at home alone and I don't think someone else that sits at home alone to be a loser. I find them cooler than people that ALWAYS NEED to be out. Those are the fearful losers.
2. Relationships happen. They don't get laid out, defined, determined, discussed - they just happen. My best friends are people that I didn't go into the situation thinking: I want to be best friends with this person! I just look back and say: wow they've been with me through thick and thin, sad and happy.
3. Cheaters are liars, that would be a good start in determining.
4. In terms of whether or not a person is lying I start with the WHY are they lying. Normally people lie to impress, hide or further convince themselves of something that they are trying to be.
5. There are also different perspectives. The same thing could happen and two different people view it differently as they lay upon the occurance their own projected intentions. I have just smiled at someone and have had everything from: "she's hitting on my boyfriend" to "she hates me" come back at me. Perplexing really. But its all based in fear and fear of confrontation with an undetermined entity.
6. I've been called a liar. I am, however, not a liar just because I don't want to share details with someone else. Because I ramble so, its when I choose not to that people fill in the blanks.
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2. Relationships happen. They don't get laid out, defined, determined, discussed - they just happen. My best friends are people that I didn't go into the situation thinking: I want to be best friends with this person! I just look back and say: wow they've been with me through thick and thin, sad and happy.
3. Cheaters are liars, that would be a good start in determining.
4. In terms of whether or not a person is lying I start with the WHY are they lying. Normally people lie to impress, hide or further convince themselves of something that they are trying to be.
5. There are also different perspectives. The same thing could happen and two different people view it differently as they lay upon the occurance their own projected intentions. I have just smiled at someone and have had everything from: "she's hitting on my boyfriend" to "she hates me" come back at me. Perplexing really. But its all based in fear and fear of confrontation with an undetermined entity.
6. I've been called a liar. I am, however, not a liar just because I don't want to share details with someone else. Because I ramble so, its when I choose not to that people fill in the blanks.
--k