Thanks - good notes. Death is certain, but we've always known that and addressed it as well as you can. He did a lot of therapy, but never or rarely hospital stays. The guilt is more from trying to figure out, guess, what he wants.

We're also the only ones in the area. Remember when Homer is in the RV lot, and the salesman says "Really, it's either this or a wagon." Well, I'm that RV.