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Funny how my friends' opinions come full circle. I'm confused - this city paper article, which exposes the amazing and unbelievable fact that a) frat boys exist, and b) they drink in bars in Georgetown, has many of my normally intelligent friends up in arms. More shocking - these Georgetown guzzling preppies are misogynistic, socially conservative, hypocritical, rich, and pretty girls hang out with them despite being degraded because they want their money.  Huh. You don't say.

I think these same friends of mine have ragged on me, hard, for ragging on frat boys. "You judge too much...not everyone is like that...you can't tell that much about them just from a glance / 5 minutes of conversation...how would you feel if you were judged...he's totally different when we're alone...just because he dresses like that doesn't mean..." Now these same friends are up in arms about this City Paper article exposing, for all the world, preppie frat boys.

Did you not understand what I was talking about all this time?

What's especially funny, and I confess I only skimmed the article (barely) is that these boys are hardly offensive! They are exclusive, so what. They don't want us in, we don't want in - everybody's happy. They want to boink girls but not marry whores, but there are not accusations of rape. They're openly conservative. Some bars only let you in if they're on the list. Other bars sponsor fund raising activities - sometimes ironic, but ultimately going to a good cause. In short, they do what they enjoy, with people they choose to hang out with, wearing clothes they like, judging others by the standards they hold themselves to...so what!? Who are they hurting exactly?

I can't believe I have to come to the defense of preppie frat boys (as if they cared what my geeky and freaky friends thought of them), but the kids this article points out as the ultimate evil aren't hurting anyone that I can see. Can someone explain the source of the outrage, and why it is appropriate to be outraged by this culture glimpse while my comments about preppie frat boys are offensive?

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I think one reason why people are so up at arms is because these people are the ones who look to be inheriting the "power" in this country and increasing their wealth, all because of who/what they were born. Meanwhile, *we* struggle just to pay rent. What bothered me personally was that pick any guy from that crowd, and he is likely one who will be in a powerful position some day, and he's done shit to deserve the easy life he has. He's an asshole, and yet he doesn't have to struggle to just get by in life, he has learned how to step on people and degrade them to increase his own wealth/status. I don't care about what kind of lives they lead in their own self chosen circles, as long as I am left alone to live my own life by my own rules, and as long as they don't do things to push me down so they can buy another Merc (that's life tho). I certainly don't want to be in a position where one of these people has "power" over me, aka working in a company taking orders from them.

I can't imagine that being my life, the way the LNS people live. What they focus on in life, things that are important to them - not a life I want to live.