Now while typically I would never want more of a sex drive, because it is already too strong, I remember being on the pill and having zero drive. I mean to the point where I couldn't even fake an interest in it for my boyfriend. Were I single at the time, that would have rocked. But sexual intimacy is a wonderful thing with the right person. If you're in a relationship it can help make you feel closer to that person, not too mention that it just feels really nice. If you totally lack sexual desire it often is a HUGE cause of stress, because you *want* to be intimate with your lover but your body is holding you back. This is, of course, different from when your body is trying to send you hints that the relationship is over. But I dunno. I can tell the difference.