What the hell is it with you gothygoth kids and having it backwards? Pursue people who show interest. Go away from people who show no interest. This is very simple and even baboons have got that right.^*




* This is not to say that you should express interest by developing a swollen red ass, but if you do that, it's your prerogative. Also, stay away from actual baboons. They're great in bed, but they don't know how to use a telephone so they won't call you back.