I'll admit it, I am for beefy and tall. I find it an extremely sexual turn on for a man to be bigger and taller than me so that my head fits right under his chin when i'm standing with him. This does not mean that I may find other men visually appealing, I simply won't be turned on in the same way. Understand that I am highly selective to begin with so this is simply one of my required trait.

Just to be honest, and really blunt, the number one turn off a guy could do would be exactly what you are writing right here: "I can't find any women". Then if they decide they like you - you think _they_ are the one who is settling.

--kelowna