Sorry, totally not though. I was a bit freaked by recent disclosures - in terms of dating I've been talking about risk factors generally, and those conversations wound up with friends talking about themselves.

My favorite old story was a friend who was dating and getting serious, and ambushed her (now husband) by laying out her status, all the facts, and ... literally ... leaving pamphlets and not letting him answer right away (he did, she didn't accept his answer).

So I'm a huge fan of open discussion n'stuff. Now unprotected sex and lying is creeping me out - but you seem to be the opposite of all that mess.