Oh curious...dare I theorize that question makes an assumption that some sort of measured success, or goal attainment, was necessary for mental health? I was probably thinking more in terms of (oh god I'm saying this) spiritual health - or better to say general happiness, with my underlying assumption be a financially and safety secure life; not necessarily educated, rich, or having spread genetic material - more like a double-negative as "not miserable."

People look at me as goal oriented or successful and I sort of creep out - I feel anti-materialistic but also...like I do judge people and call many losers, but not based on particular goals...more like not being able to support themselves financially or emotionally?