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vicarz ([personal profile] vicarz) wrote2003-03-21 09:34 am

IMPULSE

I just heard an ad for a dietary supplement to make you 'frisky.' Ok...impulse for women (sounds like fake herbal crap) and viagra for men. I don't get it - if you happen to lack sexual desire, why create it? Do you try and make yourself hungry? Do you make yourself tired? Why create a desire!? "What's wrong with me - I don't want to fuck my husband!? I better take drugs..."

Sometimes I get frustrated that while you can flirt with 20 people, if you actually do anything with any of them 19 disappear. I do the same thing, but I live by the double-standard! I'm also finding the more friends you spend time with, the more friends you're bound to have that hate each other. Neato!

maybe TMI but what the heck

[identity profile] joanarkham.livejournal.com 2003-03-21 08:24 am (UTC)(link)
When I was on Depo, I had no sex drive at all. And yes, I did miss it! If (when?) my hormones ever get out of whack, you better believe I'm going to do something about it.

I mean, not supplements advertised on the radio, but something...

Frisky

[identity profile] delappidation.livejournal.com 2003-03-21 09:13 am (UTC)(link)
Ironically, I was watching infomercials and war at 3am and saw an ad for a JuiceMan2000 or something like that. I swear an older asian man said "Itah mademe aFlisky" and then he beamed a smile. I laughed out loud. The power of juice....wash that supplement down with juice, who knows what could happen?

[identity profile] oontzgrrl.livejournal.com 2003-03-21 11:07 am (UTC)(link)
Now while typically I would never want more of a sex drive, because it is already too strong, I remember being on the pill and having zero drive. I mean to the point where I couldn't even fake an interest in it for my boyfriend. Were I single at the time, that would have rocked. But sexual intimacy is a wonderful thing with the right person. If you're in a relationship it can help make you feel closer to that person, not too mention that it just feels really nice. If you totally lack sexual desire it often is a HUGE cause of stress, because you *want* to be intimate with your lover but your body is holding you back. This is, of course, different from when your body is trying to send you hints that the relationship is over. But I dunno. I can tell the difference.